We All Get F**ked By Life At Some Points

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 I want to tell you how not to get f**ked by life

I want to tell you how not to get f**ked by life


We all get f**ked by life at some point or the other Broken relationships, arguments with parents, friends, siblings, or cousins, a career setback, a business failure, and so on, whenever something terrible happens to us, our first reaction is to blame others. 

We blame our parents, the system, other people and make them responsible for our suffering. We can blame 1000 different things, but the situation is not going to change after it happens. in this content, I don't want to depress you by saying how everything is f**ked in life instead, I want to tell you how not to get f**ked by life. 

This is based on my personal experience of having faced so many challenges in my life, including multiple failed jobs, businesses, relationships and a messy, painful moment having faced so much pain in my life- I started thinking, what is the reason for all this? Is there any way to avoid setbacks and disappointments in life?

 Because if we are so smart, we should be able to use our intelligence to be happy. Else, what is the point of being learned and having an education? We get f**ked because we want guarantees. 

We don't want to take any risks. That's where all the problems start. We do what everyone tells us to do because we want certain things in life, and we are not ready to take risks. 

Many people do engineering and want to work in it because they are not ready to take the risk of building a different career.

 Many people get married early, to the wrong partner, because they don't want to take the risk of being single, and possibly not finding someone, ever. 

Many people stick to a job and suck it up because they don't want to take a risk to start a side hustle and grow it into a business. 

Everyone wants certainty. Everyone wants a guarantee. They settle too soon, and they want stability, and they have no patience They think something is better than nothing. But that something becomes non-sense very more quickly. And then they realize that nothing is better than non-sense.

Remember not having a career is better than a toxic career.

Not being in a relationship is better than a toxic relationship that sucks the life out of you. 

Not having a degree and dropping out is better than having a non-sense engineering degree that everyone holds and has no value.

 Now think about it. Does any of the above lines make you think about your own life and the decisions you have made in your life? 

You have either made a mistake already or are about to make such mistakes. Don't. I made it already, learn from my mistakes. 

Everything that is going to hurt you is because of your desire to have guarantees in life, life is random, uncertain, unpredictable and mostly, surprising. if you do not make friends with the fact that life can be unpredictable and there is risk involved in every aspect of your life, you will not be able to make love with life.

Everything that can be wonderful and amazing in your life is packaged in unpredictability and uncertainty. Life can be heaven or hell, depending on whether you want to settle with mediocrity or not. If you remain single until you have found the right relationship, it will be the best gift of your life. 

The cost to pay is the uncertainty that you might never find someone and the pain of being single until the right person is there in your life. If you cannot pay that cost of being alone, and if you cannot handle an uncertain future, and if you prematurely get settled with someone because you want to close the deal and cash in what you have, you will pay the cost for it if the partner is incompatible to you.

If you quit your safe job, take the risk, do something, and hustle, you will be rewarded with a profitable business or a startup career that can make you wealthy happy. But it is uncertain. It might or might not happen. And that's the price such results demand out of you. if you cannot handle the risk of entrepreneurship, then the price that you will pay to remain in a job is boredom, frustration, office politics, no career growth, and sometimes, bad habits creeping up on you because of a toxic career.

 Looking for guarantees in life has a high price to pay. you pay the price with mediocrity. 

Great things in life also have a high price to pay. You pay the cost of uncertainty, risk, patience and doing things that others do not agree with. Never settle until you are 100% sure that "this" is what you want in terms of career and relationships.

 Because these are the only two factors that control your happiness in life. 

Until you find that carrer and until you find that partner, dwell in that uncertainty. It is uncomfortable, but it makes you stronger. 

Remember if it is not f**k yes, it is a f**k no wait for good things to happen, believe me, it will happen The price of keeping what you have is to let go of what you could have. The cost of getting what you could have is to let go of what you have. 

If you think you are not happy, let go. Whatever it might be. It is the moral responsibility of this universe to keep you happy because the universe created you. You do not owe anyone anything unless you are satisfied. 

Remember, you will never be successful unless you are happy because you cannot build a great relationship, family, career, or miserable business. 

Great things happen only with a positive mind. If you want to live like no one else in the future, you have to live like no one else now. If things are not great right now, let go - whatever the consequences might be. 

Make friends 

With the not. 

With the blank. 

With the uncertainty. 

With the risk. 

With not having. 

It is scary, but that is the price that the universe demands.

 Beautiful art can only be created on a blank canvas. As they say, open the doors, and let the breeze in. It takes a strong mind to do it. Without losing, you cannot gain. The people who acquire it pay for it with a loss first. f**k guarantees. 

Guarantees are for losers.

 Take that risk. the rewards will come. I promise you that.

I am always with you to guide you

 Cheers, 

Shrinivas


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